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Dear Homeschool Mom: You’re Making Language Arts Harder than It Needs to Be

In navigating the complexities of homeschooling language arts, many parents grapple with the misconception that a "complete" language arts curriculum is essential. Language arts, comprising various interwoven skills like reading, writing, grammar and listening, isn't confined to a singular subject that needs exhaustive coverage each year. Attempting to tackle every aspect simultaneously can lead to burnout and an overwhelming schedule for both parents and children.

Interestingly, schools themselves don't delve deeply into every facet of language arts annually; instead, they employ methods like spiral learning which allow for flexibility and progression over time. Homeschoolers have the autonomy to tailor their approach, focusing on individual strengths and specific needs rather than adhering to a predetermined checklist. By moving away from rigid structures, parents can better support their children's learning through real-world application, creative writing and engaging discussions.

A more effective approach emphasizes quality over quantity by fostering environments where children read, write and engage with language organically. Encouraging discussions about books, allowing for free writing and targeting specific areas of struggle with brief lessons can be more beneficial. Remember, language arts flourishes through active use and enjoyment, so stepping away from overly structured programs can often liberate a child's potential and nurture their love for language.



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Fun & Low-Stress Math Activities

Fun & Low-Stress Math Activities
Looking to make math engaging and enjoyable without the pressure of traditional schoolwork? Whether you're involved in homeschooling, after-school enrichment, or simply wanting to incorporate some practical number sense into daily life, this guide offers a variety of fun math activities that don't require complex equations or worksheets. These activities are designed to reignite a love for math in kids who might be overwhelmed by conventional methods, putting the emphasis on puzzles, games, and real-world experiences.

Choose from a myriad of games, puzzles, and creative projects to encourage mathematical thinking and problem-solving skills. Dive into Sudoku, tangram challenges, or unique card games that foster addition and subtraction. Young learners can also bolster their reasoning abilities with math riddles, logic puzzles, and real-life problem-solving scenarios like planning budgets or estimating grocery costs.

Incorporate math into daily life by comparing grocery prices, designing dream spaces, or even experimenting in the kitchen with recipe adjustments and measurements. Creativity takes center stage with activities like designing a math-themed comic strip or crafting a board game. All these activities ensure math learning remains a dynamic and enjoyable adventure beyond the classroom.
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"What curriculum should I use for...?"

"What curriculum should I use for...?"
Many new homeschooling parents often wonder if they need a specific curriculum to ensure their child's education is successful. Surprisingly, a curriculum is not a necessity; it is merely a tool and can sometimes add unnecessary complications to your schedule, especially if your children resist it. The misconception is that having a structured plan equates to effective education, but this is not always the case.

Relying on a curriculum might give homeschooling parents a false sense of adequacy or assurance that they are meeting their child's educational needs. In reality, education can be far more flexible and tailored without strictly adhering to a set curriculum. Remember, feelings of inadequacy or needing a curriculum to validate your teaching efforts are not reflective of actual facts.

Ultimately, homeschooling does not require a rigid curriculum; instead, see it as one of many tools available to tailor your child’s learning experience. It's essential to focus on what works best for your family rather than feeling obligated to stick to a specific program. Feel confident in your own methods and remember that a curriculum should facilitate, not dictate, your homeschooling journey.
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Meet Daisy Witherell Déry

 
When my kids were babies, so much stuff aimed at moms had to do with protecting the kids from poisonous, even deadly, cleaning products in the home: the kitchen sprays, the bathroom cleaners, the windows cleaners... You had to keep them in out-of-reach spaces or put baby locks on everything. This didn’t make sense to me. Why would I want dangerous, even deadly, products in my home? Why would I even want to clean with dangerous products?

So, I embarked on a journey to try to use safe-for-my-kids products. This led me to environmentally friendly cleaning approaches. Well, of course! If it’s safe for the environment, it’s safe for inside my home and vice versa! I bought a book with tons of ideas and recipes and did use some of them. When I first started using essential oils, I thought, “What a great idea! I can mix the two!”

But, you know, motherhood, and then homeschooling, take up time, so those ideas didn’t get followed through on and those safe products didn’t get made. Aaaand… certain cleaning products stayed in the home, although I did make sure that there was no skull and crossbones symbols on any of them.

Things changed when I finally found a safe cleaner that was not only safe for our home and the environment, but could also basically replace ALL of the other cleaners in the home. Safe + saves space + saves time? Win! I didn’t realize at the time how much of a win it was. Walking down the cleaning aisle at the grocery store these days, maybe looking for sponges or what have you, I find it shocking that there are so many different possible cleaners being sold when a good all-purpose cleaner can do the bulk of it (and without the heavy, synthetic scents—that’s another thing that I find shocking walking down that aisle! cough cough cough)

I’m so glad I no longer have all the different bottles of cleaners and certainly don’t have all the harmful ingredients in my home. My kids may be adults now, but it’s still important that our home be safe for me and my husband—and our little fur balls, too.

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